I am fascinated with the trends on my social media feeds, or at least the ones that Facebook and other social networking sites chooses for us. If somebody with a pretty strong presence in my feed rails about the injustices of customer service, it seems as if it is nearly always followed by a run of status updates proclaiming similar unsatisfactory experiences.
Look, I know this might be a Law of Attraction thing – you want to buy a green VW Beetle, and then that’s all you see on the road the rest of the day. I get that. But FB and other networks have already admitted to using some kind of software that tracks trends in updates and flows them together, all for the sake of “enhancing” our overall online experience. Talk about customer service being a little too self-serving…
Regardless of how they end up in my feed, people are writing them, and sometimes, they are downright depressing.
Well, I’ve got some Instant Happy Therapy for you that works for me every time. I step away from the phone/laptop/tablet and get outside.
I listen. I observe. I inhale. I absorb everything that is around me.
So few of us really do this. Here’s a quick quiz for you. Name the following:
- The natural colors and shapes around you.
- The types of trees in your neighborhood.
- The names of the wildlife outside your front window.
- The sounds of birds (and their names) in your neighborhood at dawn, noonday, and dusk.
- The insects and animals comprising your community’s little ecosystem and wild life cycle.
Not that any one of these is super important to your happiness. What is super important, though is your awareness of such things. All it takes is a little time outside, unplugged, to become aware of the vibrant life all around you.
This is my Instant Happy Therapy. It is grounded in the present, and it is happening, despite me. I get to become an observer to the wonderful movement of my natural and community surroundings. It grounds me in what matters most in this life.
So log off, and get outside for a little Instant Happy Therapy. It’s free, and it’s always available to you (and everyone else).