If we make happiness our primary goal instead of our secondary goal, then we easily accomplish everything else we desire. ~Deepak Chopra
Across the country and throughout the world, people are asking themselves the same question: What will my resolutions be for 2018?
The “Greatest Hits” of resolutions include weight loss, saying goodbye to cigarettes and liquor, and establishing a fitness regimen.
No doubt, these are all admirable goals to live a better life. But one hardly needs a new year to begin — or resume — being so resolute; in fact, I would argue that many of us are overweight, smoky, and out of shape because we set ourselves up for failure in some other previous new year. Resolutions have a way of making us feel horrible about ourselves before January is even over. Once we fail at keeping our resolutions, we find solace in remembering that another new year will soon be upon us — in 11 months.
I found another set of New Year’s “Greatest Hits” on my friend’s Facebook page. Chris shared the top ten “Words of Wisdom” by the late Wayne Dyer, and it paired nicely with my daily readings of Deepak Chopra.
The resolution we really need to be making is simple, requires no exercise equipment, and prepares us to accomplish any secondary goal we might have to live a more healthy, fulfilling life. It’s so simple, in fact, that we do everything we can to make it harder on ourselves, when we don’t need to.
Are you ready? Here it is:
Embrace happiness and joy in this moment, within you.
And we don’t even have to wait until January 1. It’s accessible, and doable, right now. All you need to do is shift your priorities, see the beauty within you first, and then go after any other goal or resolution you wish to pursue.
You might be asking: What’s the difference, then, if I go for my goals first? Won’t that lead me to the same goal of happiness anyway?
It seems logical that it should work that way, doesn’t it? Unfortunately, it almost never does. Here’s why. When we seek things — materialistic or otherwise — to bring us happiness, we allow our well being to become dependent on achieving those things. And, as we are hardly creatures of contentment, we then seek out the next thing that will make us happy.
Thoreau, over 150 years ago, nailed it when he penned those timeless words:
“The mass of men lead their lives in quiet desperation.”
We can’t keep chasing resolutions, thinking they are going to be making us happier. They simply won’t. But, if we begin with happiness, and then pursue our resolutions, that wellness within will keep us motivated throughout the year — and beyond — to make those better choices in our lives.
So here are Dyer’s words of wisdom below, coupled with ten of my own photos from previous years. At the end of this post is a lovely 39-minute sunrise that I have been playing while writing in the early hours. Enjoy.
Here’s to a happy and healthy 2018 for each of us. May you discover the beauty and joy that awaits within.
Love, Rus
10. If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.
9. How people treat you is their Karma; how you react is yours.
8. When you judge another, you do not define them. You define yourself.
7. You cannot be lonely if you like the person you’re alone with.
6. Conflict cannot survive without your participation.
5. Be miserable. Or motivate yourself. Whatever has to be done, it’s always your choice.
4. Abundance is not something we acquire; it is something we tune into.
3. Loving people live in a loving world. Hostile people live in a hostile world. Same world.
2. You’ll see it when you believe it.
1. Go for it now. The future is promised to no one.
